Richards Russian love
After the death of Nadezhda, Richard came to her home town Tver, Russia, and teaches English without any payment, to thank the Russians for his love. With a charming Russian woman Nadezhda, Richard met in 2008 at a seminar in California with a symbolic name “Eternal Love”. She was – 48, he was – 62 years old. Psychologist and director of the medical clinic, he had just retired, had long been divorced. And she was divorced, not once. First two marriages in Russia failed. Nadezhda (her name in English means Hope) came to America in search of a new life and happiness. Married again, and again failed. The new American husband was jealous and tyrant, did not want her to learn English, and for a little scratch on his new car nearly strangled her. This was the last straw, she became alone again. In the darkest moment of her life she went to this seminar.
“At the time of the meeting, we were like two broken toys – Richard said afterward. – But, as soon as I saw it, I knew immediately that she was very close to me… She was special. Her energy and a smile. For the first time in my life I felt a sense of closeness to the unfamiliar to me woman. And surprisingly, so did she”.
Relations have developed very slowly and carefully. Nadezhda did not believe men, Richard also did not rush things. Along with the seminar students toured California and Mexico.
“- Up to 62 years, I did not know what love is. In the literal sense of the word. I realized that it was the quality of all Russians”.
Seminar with a great title «SEX» (saved energy exchange – Conserving energy exchange) taught that love is a kind of key to open the doors of human capabilities and sleeping before the energy that everyone has. Only true love tend to share this energy. Richard listened to the teachers, and … he caught her eye on himself.
One day he asked what she wanted. Nadia said she wanted to see Paris. A few days later, they were already there, on February 14, Valentine’s Day. “It was in Paris, I realized that this is love. And Nadya confessed her feelings. I simply said, “I love you here at this moment.” She appreciated it. From Paris we came back a couple”.
The next two years for both of them were the happiest of their lives. They felt each other even on the little things, they were as their spiritual twins. Each knew what the other was thinking, and that bothers him.
So the verdict of doctor, to whom Nadezhda went to a regular examination, literally turned the seemingly newly arranged world upside down. The woman had cancer. The disease was already at a stage that doctors couldn’t help.
Richards Russian love
“Meetings with people help me and give meaning to life. I do not know what will happen next, but for now I want to be here. I feel like I should be here to do something. I have to thank Russia for the hidden gift. After all, Nadya had taught me to love”.