Complicated relationship & loneliness
Complicated relationship & loneliness. One of the hardest feelings for any person is loneliness. Sitting in the dark night by yourself for hours and gently crying. Everybody is resting peacefully in their bed awaiting for the new day tomorrow. But for you, there’s no difference in the days. They pass monotonously.
Complicated relationship is one which is not easy going. You two are involved in more fights and heated discussions, rather than talk of love and affection. Disputes and differences are a regular feature of such a relationship.
Complicated relationships are difficult to manage and bear. If you feel your relationship is getting complicated, there are always two ways to sort it out. First is that you can sit down with your partner, let him know the state of affairs and resolve all your differences and discussions mutually.
The other way is to part on mutual terms, if you feel you cannot take the pains any more. If something starts causing pain and gives you tension, it is better that you do away with it completely. In the words of August Strindberg, “A man with a so-called character is often a simple piece of mechanism; he has often only one point of view for the extremely complicated relationships of life.”
In a sad relationship, people related to each other stay sad and depressed. Happiness cannot exist in such a relationship. Fights, argument and heated discussions are a regular feature of a sad relationship. Sad relationship just brings sorrow and no happiness.
Being hurt by someone whom you love is the worst thing that can happen to a person. If you love someone and your beloved hurts you, then you will be left broken, dejected and depressed. It really hurts you to the core, when your beloved hurts you in some or the other way. The worst way in which your beloved can possibly hurt is when your beloved calls it quits and ends the relationship.
A broken relationship is very hard to erase from one’s mind and very difficult to deal with. One finds it hard to come over the memories of a broken relationship which was one going great guns. Being hurt by someone you love is something that you cannot easily deal with. It is difficult to get over the wounds of the heart.
The only option you have is to nurse your wounds and let them heal with time. Time is perhaps the best healer. In the words of Daphne Rae, “I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love.”